Structural Evaluation

Understand the architecture of your relationship.

The Relationship Architecture Evaluation maps the structural dynamics of committed relationships across six domains — 68 questions covering values, regulation, attachment, conflict, lifestyle, and long-term vision.

Values Alignment Emotional Regulation Conflict System Attachment Stability Lifestyle Compatibility Shared Vision
68 Questions
6 Domains
~15 Minutes

See a fully rendered example report before committing to the full evaluation.

Shared Vision

Understand how your relationship actually works

A structured evaluation that shows where your relationship is aligned and where pressure may exist.

  • Overall RAE Score
  • Structural assessment
  • 6 Domain Scores
  • Suggested next steps
  • Detailed narrative insights
  • Strengths and pressure points
  • Perception gap analysis
  • Guided next steps
  • Connection Stack frameworks

No payment required unless you decide to see Full Results.

How to Approach This Assessment

This is a structured evaluation of relationship compatibility based on patterns that influence long-term stability.

Answer based on reality, not intention

Respond based on how the relationship actually functions rather than how it feels in ideal moments or how you want it to be.

Don't optimize your answers

Editing responses to appear more aligned or favorable reduces the value of the results. The goal is clarity, not a perfect outcome.

Treat this as a snapshot, not a judgment

This evaluation reflects patterns at a specific point in time. It does not measure love, effort, or how much you care about each other.

Accuracy determines usefulness

The more honest your responses, the more relevant and actionable your results will be.

Most people already sense where tension exists, this helps make it visible and structured.

Most users complete this in 15–20 minutes  ·  68 questions

Select Your Path

How will you complete this?

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Analyzing relationship architecture
Evaluating structural domains
Generating insights
RAE Score
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Structural Assessment
Domain Breakdown
What This Means
Relationship Architecture
Domains Select to explore

Select any domain pillar to explore its structural analysis, patterns, and what they may mean for your relationship.

Structural Profile

Strengths & Pressure Zones

Click any domain to explore its full analysis in the panel above.

What's Supporting Your Relationship
Domains scoring ≥ 7.5
Where Friction May Develop
Domains scoring < 6.0
Where to Focus

Priority Levers

The two lowest-scoring domains — where deliberate attention will produce the greatest structural return.

Intimacy Alignment — Risk Vector Identified
Cross-Domain
Integration Summary
Next Step
Your Relationship Architecture

Domain-by-domain analysis in full detail

See how this looks from both perspectives

What you've seen so far reflects your experience.

The most meaningful insight often comes from understanding how your partner experiences the same relationship.

This is often where differences in perspective become most important.

What changes when both perspectives are included
  • See how each partner experiences the relationship
  • Identify perception gaps directly
  • Understand where alignment is real vs assumed
  • Receive a shared set of next steps and exercises
How it works

Your partner will complete the same assessment independently.
Responses remain private until both assessments are complete.
Once finished, your results are combined into a shared dashboard that reveals alignment, pressure points, and perception gaps.

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Partnership total $99
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RAE Partnership Score
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Structural Assessment
This reflects how your relationship functions when both perspectives are considered together.
You Partner

Based on your results, these are the most relevant actions to help reduce pressure and improve alignment.

Your Relationship Playbook

The systems you've created together to improve alignment and reduce friction.

No frameworks started yet. Complete a guided session from the partnership dashboard to build your playbook.

You've seen the structure of your relationship

What matters now is how those patterns actually play out and what they lead to over time.

This is where small differences can begin to shape bigger decisions over time.

Understanding this clearly now often changes how couples move forward.

You've already seen:
  • RAE Score
  • Structural assessment summary
  • Individual domain scores
  • Suggested next step
See the full relationship architecture:
  • Real-life pattern interpretation
  • Detailed domain breakdowns
  • Strengths and pressure zones
  • Perception gap insights
  • Long-term tension risks
  • Clear next steps
  • Guided frameworks

Choose how you'd like to continue:

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Start on your own
$49 early access ($79 standard)
  • Full report
  • Narrative insights
  • Suggested next steps
  • 90 & 120-day reassessments
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Continue together

You've already completed RAE Solo. Upgrade to Partnership to see both perspectives and unlock the full picture.

Already paid $49
Upgrade cost $90
Partnership total $99
  • Everything in your Solo results
  • Your partner's independent assessment
  • Perception gap analysis
  • Full partnership dashboard
  • Connection Stack frameworks
  • 90, 120 & 180-day dual reassessments

You'll invite your partner after upgrading.

Invite your partner

They'll complete the same evaluation independently.
You'll see combined results once both are finished.

They won't see your individual answers. Results are combined after both complete.

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Results unlock once both perspectives are complete.

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Both assessments complete

Your Partnership Results Are Ready

You're now seeing your relationship from both perspectives.

This is where perspective tends to matter most.

You rated
Your partner rated

Differences like this often shape how each person experiences the same moments.

This doesn't mean one perspective is right or wrong.

It shows where experience may not be fully shared.

Explore your full relationship architecture

See how your relationship functions across all six domains and what to do next.

Most couples don't see this level of clarity until much later.

Your assessment is complete

Your responses have been recorded. Once your partner reviews the combined results, you'll both be able to explore your shared dashboard.

Your individual answers remain private. Only the combined results are shared.

Overview
RAE Score
Structural Assessment
Suggested Next Step
Domain Snapshot
Relationship Status
Solo Assessment
1 of 6
Your profile
Optimal Partnership Profile
Structural Builder
You function best when the foundation is clear.
2 of 6
How you operate

How you tend to operate in relationships

3 of 6
Your emphasis

What stands out for you

Within your profile, a few patterns are especially prominent.

4 of 6
Where this can show up

Where this can create friction

Reflect
5 of 6
Compatibility

How to evaluate a potential partner

Your Profile
Your result
Structural Builder
What's next
The other side

This is only half of the picture

You now understand how you tend to operate. That's the first piece. But understanding yourself in isolation doesn't tell you how those patterns interact with another person's — where alignment is real, where it's assumed, and where friction tends to build.

You
Structural Builder
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Partner
Their pattern
Relationship Structure
Alignment Pressure points Interaction patterns
Choose your path
Next step

How do you want to continue?

Most people start with Solo, then invite their partner once they see their results.

RAE Partnership
See the full relationship dynamic. Both perspectives combined — where alignment is real and where it's assumed.
Both partners · ~20 min each · $99
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RAE Solo

You've seen how you operate. Now see how it actually plays out.

What you've seen
Your partnership profile type
How you tend to operate
What to look for in a partner
What you unlock
$49
Early access · RAE Solo
Full results unlocked

Your full results are ready

You now have access to your complete Relationship Architecture.

You've already seen part of this — this is where it all connects.

RAE Solo · Full access
Your full 6-domain relationship architecture
Pressure zone analysis
Perception gap report
Priority levers and action framework
Includes full structure, pressure zones, and next steps  ·  Accessible anytime