The Relationship Architecture Evaluation (RAE) scores six structural domains (values alignment, emotional regulation, attachment stability, conflict system, lifestyle compatibility, and long-term vision) and tells you exactly where to focus first.
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A structured evaluation that shows where your relationship is aligned and where pressure may exist.
No payment required unless you decide to see Full Results.
This is a structured evaluation of relationship compatibility based on patterns that influence long-term stability.
Respond based on how the relationship actually functions rather than how it feels in ideal moments or how you want it to be.
Editing responses to appear more aligned or favorable reduces the value of the results. The goal is clarity, not a perfect outcome.
This evaluation reflects patterns at a specific point in time. It does not measure love, effort, or how much you care about each other.
The more honest your responses, the more relevant and actionable your results will be.
Most people already sense where tension exists, this helps make it visible and structured.
Most users complete this in 15–20 minutes · 68 questions
Select any domain pillar to explore its structural analysis, patterns, and what they may mean for your relationship.
Click any domain to explore its full analysis in the panel above.
The two lowest-scoring domains — where deliberate attention will produce the greatest structural return.
Domain-by-domain analysis in full detail
What you've seen so far reflects your experience.
The most meaningful insight often comes from understanding how your partner experiences the same relationship.
This is often where differences in perspective become most important.
Your partner will complete the same assessment independently.
Responses remain private until both assessments are complete.
Once finished, your results are combined into a shared dashboard that reveals alignment, pressure points, and perception gaps.
You'll invite your partner after checkout
Based on your results, these are the most relevant actions to help reduce pressure and improve alignment.
The systems you've created together to improve alignment and reduce friction.
No frameworks started yet. Complete a guided session from the partnership dashboard to build your playbook.
What you can’t see yet: how those patterns interact in practice, where the friction actually concentrates, and the priority levers that determine what changes from here.
This is where small differences can begin to shape bigger decisions over time.
Understanding this clearly now often changes how couples move forward.
Your evaluation is complete. Choose the access level that fits where you are:
See how your relationship actually functions between both perspectives.
This is where the most meaningful insight comes from.
You've already completed RAE Solo. Upgrade to Partnership to see both perspectives and unlock the full picture.
You'll invite your partner after upgrading.
They'll complete the same evaluation independently.
You'll see combined results once both are finished.
They won't see your individual answers. Results are combined after both complete.
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Results unlock once both perspectives are complete.
You're now seeing your relationship from both perspectives.
This is where perspective tends to matter most.
Differences like this often shape how each person experiences the same moments.
This doesn't mean one perspective is right or wrong.
It shows where experience may not be fully shared.
See how your relationship functions across all six domains and what to do next.
Most couples don't see this level of clarity until much later.
Your responses have been recorded. Once your partner reviews the combined results, you'll both be able to explore your shared dashboard.
Your individual answers remain private. Only the combined results are shared.
Within your profile, a few patterns are especially prominent.
You now understand how you tend to operate. That's the first piece. But understanding yourself in isolation doesn't tell you how those patterns interact with another person's — where alignment is real, where it's assumed, and where friction tends to build.
Most people start with Solo, then invite their partner once they see their results.
You now have access to your complete Relationship Architecture.
You've already seen part of this — this is where it all connects.